Do you see yourself as a leader?

When I was a child and organizing a game, another girl in the neighborhood said to me “Who made you boss?”

I wouldn’t remember that conversation until decades later when I was getting to know who I was.

My whole life growing up, aside from feeling comfortable in the neighborhood, I felt less than, a quiet outsider with few friends. I withered at school and came more alive in the comfort of my neighborhood.

I eventually wanted more and became a follower, never quite believing in my own worth or power.

Today I recognize the leader that was always within but for so long hesitant to come out.

If anyone ever tells you you’re a bossy person, acknowledge your gift of leadership. You will eventually come into your own power. Life’s like that.